Labelling People

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم


Assalamualaikum wbt.

So, this is might be my second post in 2015. It looks like me in a very busy situation. 2015 is like my new ever life where I have to be more serious and more active in my study. For next future, I pray to Allah to give the best for me and my friends. I know it is like a sad thing because my application form to SBP and MRSM didn't accepted. So I tell to my heart everyday "This is the best planner from Allah to you, Wafiqah." In my opinion, it is true.

Even in a situation where it is personally offensive to us, we should try our level best to reflect our relationship with God and we should never ever left God out of the equation because the equation will never be complete without God. But it can be complete without our ego.

For example, during the saddest moment of Prophet Muhammad's (peace be upon him) life, when the people of Taif chased him out of their town with stones and the Prophet was bleeding to his sandals, the Prophet made a monumental du'a to Allah.

 Aiman Azlan 

I just got bumped into Aiman Azlan's blog (thanks, ) and I already stalk his blog. In the deep of my heart I really really appreciate his hardworking in dakwah and tarbiyyah for all people out there. Even though I was and still in SMKA school but it is the same thing but in a different way. They might not be that bad like some those schools but some were naughty. 

What I mean teenagers are the time where many of us search for new experience and new life to another level. Where we like more crazy and naughty. Okay, truly my English is not that good. Please, pray for my english subject. Amin*

So, I'll change my language for the better explanation. 

Senang cerita kita ni remaja yang ada rasa dan perasaan nak cuba atau rasa untuk sesuatu. But, try to make your niat for the good way. Jangan buat sesuatu yang pelik dan menggambarkan pemikiran ketidakmatangan. Jangan fikir ikut perasaan dan emotional. Expose yourself to others that you are really hard and trying to change the human thinking about teen. 

Some person labelling teen is a bad element inside their heart. Mereka menganggap zaman remaja ni mudah terpengaruh and the bad things is bila seorang remaja yang buat benda buruk, mata orang memandang 'that' person always bad. So that is wrong!

Kita bukanlah sesiapa yang ada hak untuk melabel one person is always looking bad forever sampaikan satu kebaikan yang dia buat tu semua orang tak terima. Orang pandang buruk. Kita seharusnya bagi second chance for that person or people untuk berubah. Kita digalakkan mengajak dan membimbing dia ke arah jalan yang baik. Bagi pendekatan yang halus kiranya kita usik hati dia dengan lembut.

                   Kelembutan takkan pernah kalah dengan kekerasan.                                           - Imam Muda Nazrul - 

Steps on street dakwah,

• Jangan and don't ever tegur kesalahan dia depan orang. 
• Jangan buka aib (keburukan) seseorang pada orang lain
• Jangan mention nama if kita nak bagi peringatan umum

These three things sangat penting dalam street dakwah. You have to know what Do's and Don't's in dakwah or tarbiyyah. 

Last but not least, "Violence never change anything." Wassalamualaikum.